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Help the smoker left on the sinking ship

v poslednee vremya kurilshiki ohvacheny chuvstvami volneniya i trevogi, poskolku teper obshestvo protiv kureniya. da i sami kurilshiki vystupaut protiv etoj pagubnoj privychki. oni chuvstvuut, chto vremya kureniya uzhe ushlo. segodnya vse kak raz-taki brosaut kurit, i eto ponyatno vsem. no kak tolko etot tonushij korabl pokidaet eshe odin kurilshik, ostalnye nachinaut panikovat i stanovyatsya eshe bolee neschastnymi. v glubine dushi kazhdyj iz nih znaet, chto smeshno platit ogromnye dengi za vysushennye listya, zavernutye v bumagu, a zatem podzhigat ih i vdyhat kancerogennye smoly v legkie. nu a esli vy do sih por ne schitaete, chto eto glupo, to poprobujte podzhech sigaretu i zasunut sebe etu sigaretu ne v rot, a kuda-nibud v drugoe mesto, naprimer v uho. mozhet byt, budet takzhe veselo? a raznica lish v tom, chto v vashi legkie ne proniknet nikotin. tak kakaya raznica, kuda sovat etu sigaretu? kak pravilo, kurilshiki ne mogut najti normalnogo logichnogo obyasneniya, pochemu oni kuryat, i poetomu, esli kto-to ryadom tozhe nachinaet kurit, oni chuvstvuut sebya bolee uverennymi.

vse kurilshiki prosto vrut i sebe i drugim. dlya togo, chtoby sohranit hot kakoe-to uvazhenie k sebe okruzhaushih, im prihoditsya pridumyvat razlichnye istorii s celu podejstvovat na mozg ludej, chtoby te poverili, chto kurilshikam nravitsya kurit. im prosto neobhodimo sdelat tak, chtoby i nekuryashie ludi poverili v to, chto sigarety prinosyat udovolstvie, i upotreblenie etogo tovara dejstvitelno opravdano. takim obrazom, oni mogut opravdat sebya ne tolko pered chuzhimi ludmi, no i pered samimi soboj.

kogda chelovek pytaetsya izbavitsya ot zavisimosti putem metoda sily voli, on vse zhe stradaet bez sigaret, i stanovitsya zanudoj dlya okruzhaushih, poskolku postoyanno stradaet bez sigaret. a v eto vremya drugie ludi, okruzhaushie ego, kotorye eshe ne brosili kurit, lish ubezhdautsya eshe bolshe v tom, chto kurenie eto ne ploho, i brosat vovse ne stoit.


mnenie pora menyat

esli zhe kurilshiku udaetsya slomat sebya i perestat postoyanno zhelat kurit, on chuvstvuet sebya ochen schastlivym, poskolku teper emu ne pridetsya postoyanno otravlyat sebe zhizn nikotinom. no byvshij kurilshik nikogda ne stanet sam rasskazyvat o svoih radostnyh oshusheniyah ostalnym. a sami oni nikogda ne sprosyat, poskolku znaut sami otvet. a imenno strah vsegda zastavlyal kurilshikov prodolzhat kurit.

tak pomogite zhe kurilshiku izbavitsya ot ego strahov. rasskazhite emu, kak zdorovo postoyanno chuvstvovat sebya bodrym i zdorovym chelovekom, a ne oshushat boleznennoe sostoyanie i slyshat svoj hriplyj golos. kak prekrasno ne byt zavisimym ot svoej privychki. kak zdorovo oshushat radost kazhdogo dnya, ne zadumyvatsya o mrachnyh myslyah. a luchshe dajte emu etu knigu.

samoe vazhnoe –this is not to belittle the smoker by the hints that he's ruining the environment with their smoke, or that he is disgusting in the eyes of others. There is a perception that the worst of all in that respect are former smokers. This judgment is true for those who quit Smoking by force of will. Despite the fact that they no longer smoke, but in their mind continues to wander of the thought that they are to some extent sacrificed. That they have deprived themselves of something important. Such a person feels weak and vulnerable, and so his only defense is the attack on those who now smokes. This will help those who already smoke, but someone who still smokes – it's nothing. On the contrary, the smoker has to defend himself, so he feels even more upset and, therefore, more needs to be cigarette.


A difficult task

Despite the fact that millions of smokers have to get rid of the habit of Smoking just because society has changed its attitude to cigarettes, but it has only complicated the task of the smokers to kick the habit. Today, many quit because they think that Smoking seriously damages their health. Yes, of course, nicotine affects your health, but cigarette smokers smoke many years and all this time they absolutely didn't care that the nicotine did to their health. The only reason smokers quit Smoking is the opinion that cigarette is nothing like nicotine dependence, and not a stupid habit. But if you are a dependent, then you are an addict. And getting pleasure from a cigarette was always just an excuse and an illusion, and society began to understand it. So smokers end up with nothing when trying to defend. A complete ban on Smoking in the London underground system is a classic example of the dilemma of the smoker. Then the smoker just tell myself that if he can't smoke in the subway car, you simply will travel by another mode of transport. Thus, the government will not achieve anything except for as a reduction of revenues of underground transport. Well, another smoker will think that they can refrain from Smoking one or two hours in the subway, but he will feel very bad. Now his only dream is to smoke a cigarette. What is precious it will become.


Error beginners

Such forced abstinence from nicotine does not lead to anything good because the smoker after that, only more wants to smoke and smokes far more cigarettes than smoked would be without such forced abstinence. And besides, now his mind has further strengthened the idea ofhow cigarette important to him.

Probably the most awful feelings in the period of abstinence from cigarettes experiencing pregnant women. First, advertising and society spoke to the girls about how wonderful it is to smoke, and they started to smoke. And then, in the most difficult, stressful, exciting period of a woman's life she has to give up Smoking, otherwise the child will suffer serious injury and damage to health during its maturation in the belly of the mother. Those mothers who can not cope with their addiction, continue to smoke and then berate and hate myself for the rest of life. And those who decided to abstain for nine months, quit and think that after nine months they are already so wean from cigarettes, never to smoke. Then followed the birth with the attendant pain and fear. And then a new person is born. But the impact on the brain of this girl never passed, and therefore, immediately after the baby is born she'll start Smoking again. But the joy of the first cigarette terminated after the fact how much the taste of this cigarette is terrible. And now there is no desire to smoke this terrible poison, but later, the first cigarette is smoked. And now it's "just one cigarette" can not be the last.

When addicts dependent on heroin, they are criminals, but society treats them with pity, and makes people think how they can help these poor suffering drug addicts. It would be good if society would also apply to regular smokers. Because smokers are people who suffer from their addiction and can't do anything with it. It was always assumed that a quick death is better than slow. It is true in the case of smokers. They need your compassion.

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